What makes you different?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

In bed, not in music, which is better, a drummer or a bass player?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

How can I easily get rid of my writers block?

What if he’d come outside?

So, keep on experimenting.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

What type of crossdresser are you?

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

The International Boxing Association said that Khelif and Lin competing in Paris Olympics were disqualified from the tournament for testing positive for XY chromosomes which give an unfair advantage in the women’s division. What do you think?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Why do some people refuse to explain their actions or behavior when asked? Why do they claim to not know the reason instead of providing an explanation?

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

What measures do celebrities take to protect their images from being used for commercial purposes without permission? How much does this typically cost them?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

What makes you YOU.

Can you make it?

How Apple Created a Custom iPhone Camera for ‘F1’ - WIRED

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Why are so many US conservatives in this day and age still against racial mixing? They won't say it in public, but they are still against the mixing between Blacks and whites? Why?

Agree?

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Why are white women not interested in dating Asian men? Are they not attractive to you at all?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

If you believe in God, do you think God can save you from cancer?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson